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What babies need: A view through the lens of ecology

Caring for your baby can be all-consuming, but sifting through conflicting parenting advice shouldn't be. KidEcology helps you create the most nurturing spaces and experiences for your baby, in your home and out in the world.

Kidecology philosophy: Instead of perfecting parenting techniques, scripts, and gadgets, let's put our best effort into creating environments for learning and connection

Are you tired of all the conflicting and confusing baby care advice?

  • “Let your baby sleep”, but also “keep naps short”;
  • "Follow your baby's lead", but also "develop routines";
  • “Start with purees”, but also “skip purees entirely”;
  • “Babywear as much as possible”, but also “don't restrict free movement”

Do you feel like you must stick to one parenting philosophy or set of techniques, but none seem fitting?

Did you hope to rely on your instincts, but discover that you don't 'naturally' know what to do?

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YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

The one-size-fits-all, "one right way" advice should be questioned.

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The answers to parenting questions are not black-and-white but a kaleidoscope of good options

When I was a new mom 15 years ago, I found myself in a sea of ​​opinions.

Many came with a sense of pressure: "Do this or your baby won't thrive".

It was overwhelming and unhelpful.

So I set out to do something different.

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What babies need: An ecologist's answer

I am Anya Dunham, a scientist with a PhD in Biology and an ecological research focus. More specifically, I study habitats: spaces and environments that support life. When I became a parent, I began to think about what babies need through the ecological lens. What do babies need in their environments to thrive?

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Despite technological progress, baby ecology — what babies need from the physical spaces they live in, the care they receive, and their interactions with people in their life — has remained largely constant and universal.

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Here and in my award-winning book, Baby Ecology, I look at scientific studies on baby sleep, feeding, care, and play through the lens of ecology. After carefully analyzing hundreds of studies, I found that there is no "best", one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, there is range of good options. And within this (often, fairly wide) 'range of good', each family can find what is best for their unique baby and their specific circumstances.

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Let's create the nurturing spaces and experiences that work best for YOU and YOUR BABY. I am here to help you by analyzing scientific research on baby sleep, feeding, and play through the ecological lens and then adding my lived experience as a mom of three. My goal is to ORIENT you and help you figure out what matters most.   

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I began working on this space in 2022 after I wrote Baby Ecology . See what Baby Ecology is about, browse through reader reviews, or check out multiple awards Baby Ecology received


Green grass background with text: Ecology: a branch of biology that studies how living things relate to one another and interact with their environment. Despite technological progress, baby ecology — what our babies need from the physical spaces they live in, care they receive, and people in their lives — has remained largely constant and universal.

What you'll find here

I write about everything that forms yours and your baby’s day-to-day experiences: getting ready for baby; sleep, feeding, playing and being cared for:

  • Knowledge from hundreds of academic papers carefully analyzed and brought together to answer tricky and complex questions we all face as new parents (for example: starting solids and avoiding picky eating; babies and screens; choosing daycare).
  • Support, whether you're formula-feeding or breastfeeding, using purees or baby-led weaning, bed-share with your baby or your baby sleeps alone. There are no parenting wars or strict, black-and-white “do's” and “don'ts” here. 
  • Practical ideas for planning, creating, and organizing play spaces and making things for your baby.
  • References to all the studies I cite are always listed at the end of each article, in case you want to dig deeper or use them as a jumping off point for further reading.

FREE guides and tutorials

👉 Newborn Sleep Guide

👉 Ready-for-Baby Checklist

👉 Baby Play Area

👉 Daycare Guide

In-depth blog articles

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